I don’t get it. Would you care to elaborate?

You can only lose if you explain jokes :)

A matter of wining or losing?

I thought it was a matter of subtle delivery that mattered and various degrees of which subtlety in the delivery to increase or decrease the effectiveness of the punchline if it’s understood at all that is.

To the subject at hand:
yes, you do have some possibility of wooing someone – or two – of the opposite sex with a kettle pot and a set of fine lacquer-finished ceramic Japanese tea cups.

Miracles can happen.